Flirting Tips EVERY Single Person Should Know!
11. The bump method.
If you are at a crowded party, and you want to spark up a conversation with a particular guy, then you can use the bump method for it. All you have to do is to run into the guy, and apologize to him by being too clumsy. Smile while you are talking to him, and introduce yourself.
12. Compete with the other person.
Competing against each other can set off sexual signals between the two of you. You can challenge the other person to play darts, a game of pool, a card game, or even wager on something. By doing this, you won’t just have fun with one another, but it can also bring you closer to each other.
13. Don’t become tensed.
Being tensed and crossing your arms is not a good way to start flirting with another person. With that, you need to maintain a smooth body language, so that your flirting would become more effective. While doing that, you can lead towards him and try to imitate his body language subtly.
14. Flirting is fun.
Flirting is something that is fun, which is why it is not a good idea to take it too seriously. When you take it too seriously, your expectations may become too high, which can get you disappointed in the end. By doing it for fun, your flirting would bring out positive effects, since you would come across as a confident person who simply wants to have some enjoyment.
15. Don’t forget to give compliments.
Compliments can get you anywhere as far as flirting effectively is concerned. Everyone loves to receive compliments, which is why it is one of the best ways to spark up a good conversation with another person. Just make sure that your compliments are not too personal and that they are genuine.
16. Not all flirting efforts work.
Always remember that there may be times when a person may respond negatively or reject your flirting. Whenever that happens, the best thing to do is to walk away, and look for another opportunity or another person to flirt with. Don’t try to persist, since a negative response does not mean that the other person is just playing hard to get.
17. Only flirt with a person that you are interested in.
It is not a good idea to flirt with someone whom you are not interested in going on a date with. This is because, it can lead him or her on; and, it would not be a pleasant experience for the person when you turn them down. Thus, make sure that you are applying your flirting skills only to those you want to date.
There may be times when a person that you are not interested in flirts with you. When this happens, there is no need to do something that can insult the person. All you have to do is to make up an excuse or simply walk away, in order to send out the message that you are not interested.
19. Go on spontaneous dates.
Going on spontaneous dates with the person you really like is a good way to be with him. To do this, you can simply ask him if he wants to accompany you to the nearest ice cream shop, and do it in a way that he won’t be able to say no. By doing this, you can spend more time with him, and apply your flirting skills while you are enjoying your ice cream.
20. Tease a guy you just met.
In meeting a guy for the first time, in most cases, he would try to tell you his first name first. When he does that, try to make him repeat himself by indicating that you were not able to catch it the first time. When you do this, he would repeat himself and lean towards you. Once he does that, give him a smile, to indicate that you are joking. This would be a good ice breaker, which could result to an interesting conversation later on.
